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Nancy
Trafton
Oct 11, 1965 — Oct 25, 2024
If the only measure of a human's life was time, it would seem short, but when measured in memorable moments and love, Nancy's was infinite.
On Friday, October 25th, Nancy peacefully left this world for a better place. Nancy's laughter was large, silly, and sweet, spreading warmth to all who were fortunate to be around her. Anyone who knew Nancy will always remember her infectious passion for life.
Nancy was born on October 11, 1965, in Portsmouth, NH, and was also a longtime resident of Orleans County, VT. She leaves behind a small village of friends and her beloved caregivers. Donna Mcallister Scofield, Donna's sisters Vivian and Shirley, and Donna's children Teresa, Anita, Angela, Donnie, Scott, Dale, and Donna's many grandchildren. Morgan and Eythan Burnham, Sheila Santaw, and Aimee Bonin, along with their families. In addition to those who considered her family, she had a dedicated team through Northeast Kingdom Human Services and many attentive guardians.
Donna welcomed Nancy into her family and loving home and cared for her for over 21 years. Throughout the years, they had many wonderful experiences and adventures. Donna considered Nancy a daughter and they loved each other immensely. During her many visits to Shirley's house, she always enjoyed her favorite meal, spaghetti. The family camped and traveled often, including a memorable trip to Disney Land. Nancy's desire to be helpful and kind came through when she would help Donna's husband clear his dishes, including his cup whether he was done drinking or not.
Nancy had a cherished group of friends who enjoyed dances, parties, and celebrations along with her. She attended Global Campus and various events hosted by Green Mountain Self Advocates. She loved to go bowling and swimming with her peers. She shared her love and friendship with everyone around her. She had a special relationship with all the children that she was blessed to call family. Harper, Oakland, Owen, Brantley, and Daxton will forever remember Nancy's smile and her hugs, which often turned into tickles and playful elbow jabs. Her hugs, kisses, and many ball tosses will be missed by her puppy friends.
Nancy often joined Donna and her husband as they performed music in the community. Nancy played maracas and the tambourine while they sang. She would stand and join Donna when they would sing Silent Night. These performances instilled a lifelong love of music and dancing. Even sitting in the car, she would sway and rock out to the music. She attended line dancing with Aimee and they had frequent dance parties at home. You could see the joy she was feeling when she would walk and sway to the beat of her own drum. Nancy had a funny and cute pep in her step when she was at her happiest.
She truly enjoyed musicals and dancing television shows, but not quite as much as she enjoyed anything "scary". She was hands down a Star Trek fan and would binge-watch their shows and movies. Often while visiting Donna's sister Vivian, Nancy in true jokester fashion, would try to take Vivian's son's Star Trek videos. She loved rocking in her rocking chair while enjoying music and watching anything in her extensive movie collection. She enjoyed her days swinging in the swing out at Morgan's house. Nothing would get in her way of swaying to the music, not even the kids playing around her.
Going for car rides and getting her nails done with Sheila was always a special time. She loved visiting with Sheila's daughters. They all took frequent trips to Burlington for lunch, to hang out and enjoy each other's company.
Being in the water was another of her favorite activities. She loved being in the water kicking and splashing, whether she was in a pool or at the lake. She would smile and giggle whenever she splashed everyone around her.
Nancy was very artistic and very passionate about the activities she loved. She would paint and color until she had filled pages and canvases full of beautiful artwork. She often painted rocks with Harper for hours. She would even refuse food and show her witty side by saying, "not done" so she could continue doing what she so loved. In recent months, she attended The Meeting Place where they gave her all the supplies she needed to create beautiful pictures. They provided a loving and fun filled atmosphere and Nancy flourished there. She loved it so much, she would often say she wanted to stay there at the end of the day.
Nancy was always ready to go. Whether it was a walk, shopping, eating out, or just a ride, she was excited. Her energy and love for life was never ending and no matter what, she made sure everyone knew she was "no tired". She never missed a bless you, thank you, are you ok, or sweet dreams. The lazy days of summer found Nancy, Aimee, Kay and special friends Rachael or Sheila enjoying the shade under the gazebo eating snacks while listening to music. One of her all time favorite outings was her almost daily trip to Tim and Doug's to get a scoop of chocolate ice cream with Aimee and Kay.
She will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her. As we say "farewell for now," we tightly embrace the memories of her laughter and the warmth of her love. We love you Nancy, forever and always. We know you will continue to rock and roll in heaven.
A graveside service will be held at the North Cemetery in Barton, Vermont on Monday, November 4th at 2 pm. Immediately following friends are invited to a celebration of life at The Newport Eagle's Club, Eagles Nest Drive, Newport, Vermont. Memorial contributions can be made to The Meeting Place, PO Box 250, Newport, VT 05855, or to a charity of your choosing to support developmentally disabled community members. Online condolences my be made at curtis-britch.com. Arrangements are entrusted to the care of Curtis-Britch & Bouffard Funeral Home & Cremation Service, locally family owned and operated.
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